Massage is a brilliant way for couples to connect either as part of foreplay or just as an intimate way to unwind together. Many people (men in particular) can feel a bit out on a limb when it comes to massaginf their partner when it is actually an easy way to increase arousal in your lover and encourage quality time together.
As an aid to sexual enjoyment try a Thai massage for a sensual and erotic way of relaxing your lover. The Thai massage is so named because it is the way Thai Masseuse maintain skin on skin contact during the massage to encourage a request for ‘extras’ before the session is out. In effect it is an arousing massage which will benefit you both. Try hovering over your lovers body and gently sweeping your abdomen over their breast area, tummy and lower abdomen. Interspersing the massage with soft lingering kisses will help in getting the juices flowing and using a little massage oil on their body first will aid the sexy glide over their skin.
If you are a woman teasing and tempting your man try a genital massage thai style. Open your legs and gently trace your labia over your mans thighs, penis and tummy. Let the scent and soft touch intoxicate him before sitting down on his genitals.
Another highly stimulating method of tactile arousal is dragging your hair (if its long enough over your partners skin particularly over the lower abdomen as a precursor to oral sex.
The bath is a great place to indulge in erotic massage. Sit behind your lover and use your soapy hands to kneed and caress their shoulders and back before reaching around and touching their breasts, tummy and inner thighs. This massage can lead up to mutual masturbation or simply rubbing your genitals against each other amidst the warm bubbly water.
Use a combination of the above techniques starting off with a sweeping of your bare skin against one another and then moving to a gentle trace of hair against inner thigh and buttock. Incorporate a massage of the feet and ankles to allow complete relaxation for your lover before moving towards oral sex stimulation or mutual masturbation. Remember that the more relaxed your lover feels the more motivated they are for sex and intimate time together so after that long and stressful day at the office ask them up to the bedroom for a massage session they won’t forget